What I really care about in life is people and relationships. I always have done, ever since I was a little girl. My dad told me that when I was little and at school I was meant to be doing a subject like maths or english, and I could not focus my mind instead I drew a picture of my family, who I love so much.
My friends, my family and others that I care about come first in my life. I put God above all this, because he made me and deserves eveything I can give him. At times in my life I have allowed certain relationships to take over in my life, in such times I have not given myself enough time and care and also neglected God. Now that I am putting relationships into more of a balance, rememering that Christ is number one and that I must consider myself as well as others, I am know who I am, what my identity is and who my identity is in. Christ my savour who made me and knows everything about me, my fears and failings and loves me all the same. And most wonderfully of all there is nothing I can do that can make him love me more or less. Wow.
The thing is that there are times when I allow relationships to effect me too much. I know that it is not good for me to focus on one person or certain relationships too much, because when I do this I lose sight of my own life and who I am. I find this very hard, especially because naturally I am inclined to give myself over to someone, to let them in and to trust them. I know that I need to be more selective who I allow in and also to take my time in letting someone back into my life. I have been going through such a growing time (and it is God who has worked in me) realising who I am and what I care about. For someone to come into that, they need to be the right person, someone who see’s me and is going to treat me right.
I think in life you have to take risks as well, if you have feelings for someone, you have to see where it is going to go… Its hard sometimes. It is also something I really like, getting to know someone and close to someone. We have certain instincts given to us and gifts to relate to people on a deeper level and I want to explore this amazing gift in life. I just hope that while I do this, I remember who I am and who I am in Christ.
